How to know if you are in love with the wrong person ?
It’s pretty common and it might has happened to all of us at some time, that we fell in love with the wrong person then suffered the consequences.
Being in love with wrong person is like living in darkness. People tend to deny that they’re in love with the wrong person because that’s how the attractiveness for the person grew so strong in the first place. Eventually in the last you will have to accept the fact, that the person isn’t right for you and this only means something better is going to come along the way.
Here we are going to discuss 5 mains points to know if you are in love with the wrong person.
5 Key points to determine whether you love the wrong person
1. Your spouse every time want you to impress them
Does your day starts with trying to impress your spouse for every small-small things to just get his/her mere attention ? If yes, then you might should start thinking about your relationship, you might be living with a wrong person. Your partner should love you as you are, a soulmate will never want you to please them all the time. Does it feel like they are trying to mold you into an entirely different person? If so, it might be time to let them go.
2. He/she want you to be thinking always about them
If your partner always wants you to be thinking always about them or if it seems like your spouse is more interested in how you fit in their world than they are with your individual personality, you might be dating the wrong person. If your partner doesn’t like you talking about your opposite gender friends then you might be with a very possessive kind of relationship.
3. You keep your partner as a secret from your family
Let’s straight come to the point, if you keep your partner or your so think soulmate a secret from your family members then there has to be some reasons for that, I mean some negative reasons. If you really think that you will be embarrassed if you introduce your partner to your family, then it’s the time to end the relationship.
4. Spending time with them exhausts you
Once, in layman’s term Einstein explained his relativity, “When you sit with a nice girl for two hours you think it’s only a minute, but when you sit on a hot stove for a minute you think it’s two hours. That’s relativity”. Time runs fast when you spend time with a loved one, hanging out with your partner exhausts you then certainly you are not with the one you love.
5. They don’t have any interests or hobbies other than relationship talks
This is the most important sign of knowing weather your partner is really the one you wanna spend rest of your life with, if your spouse don’t have any interests, hobbies or personal goals other than just talking about the relationship stuffs, then you should start taking this seriously, because in the long run a successful relationship is only that which involves respect, trust, boundaries, financial and emotional support, and equal participation in day to day task, not the one which is only focused on love talks.